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Why this World needs no more Fast-Food Sex
Sex is a wildly misused, misunderstood and miscommunicated topic. It’s like a dirty secret, you just don’t talk about it. But doesn’t everybody do it? Besides eating, sleeping and pooping, sex is probably the one thing we all do, desire or at least fantasize about. And there is a simple reason: We long for unity.

Tantra is Not Sex
Most people have either never heard of it or associate it with ecstatic lovemaking. But tantra isn’t just about sex, it’s about energies. Tantra is traditionally from India and an ancient form of yoga. It literally means “instrument to expand”. This inner technology works not with the physical body, but with the energy body (We have 5 bodies — physical, energetic, emotional, wisdom & bliss body). Sexuality usually concentrates your energies in the lower chakras, but the goal of tantra is about raising your energies to the upper chakras. So you use sex not to lower yourself to the basic instincts, but raise yourself to higher dimensions.
The quintessence of tantra is: Nothing exists that isn’t divine. The body is seen as a living temple and sexual energy as divine energy. Tantra can, therefore, be used as an instrument for spiritual transformation. And yes, the union of the male and female energies is used to get there, but with the difference that the end goal isn’t an orgasm, but…